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While these two things are not mutually exclusive, one does not automatically predict or determine the other. My evidence: Gay total tops exist, and there are many straight men in the world who love getting fingered, pegged, and played with — in the butt.
In fact, more and more straight men are. My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly. I am a sex-positive writer and blogger. The views in this slideshow do not reflect those of The Advocate and are based solely off of my own experiences. Like everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. Those who are sensitive to frank discussions about sex are invited to click elsewhere, but consider this: If you are outraged by content that address sex openly and honestly, I invite you to examine this outrage and ask yourself whether it should instead be directed at those who oppress us by policing our sexuality.
For all others, enjoy the slideshow. And feel free to leave your own suggestions of sex and dating topics in the comments. Hungry for more? Sure, anal sex and ass play can hurt if you go too fast, and it will be messy at times — most sex is. Like all sexual activities, it has a learning curve.
Learning how to do it better means learning proper ass-cleaning techniques and which lubes work better than others. Take advantage of these. Good anal play starts with toys. Buy high-quality ones, not those cheap ones from novelty shops.
Do some research. Silicone is a far superior material to plastic or gel, but some guys love hypoallergenic, nonporous, friction-free materials glass and stainless steel — I do. Many, many guys like anal play — and not all of them are gay or bi. All asses feel the same, regardless of your sexual orientation, which means they can all receive the same pleasure. There are multiple ways to try bottoming. You can do a lot of anal play solo or with a willing, adventurous, awesome playmate. There are awesome women in the world who want to fuck you.
They want to do you from behind. Vaginas secrete their own natural lubricant, although women the world over will attest that adding lube makes sex more pleasurable for them. To make cleaning your ass easier, you may want to consider doing something that you should be doing anyway — eating a healthy diet. Browse my 17 tips for happier, healthier bottoming.
Most guys know the underside of the penis feels good when stimulated. But there are other male g-spots. There is a third pleasure spot: Your hole. Your anal sphincter, the muscular ring at the base of your colon, feels very tight when you first start to play in it. You might discover, as I have, that working this muscle and training it to open feels really, really good. I can hit orgasm from hole play by itself. If you suffer from too-quick ejaculation a pretty common problem , try delaying orgasm with toys, fingers, or some form of anal stimulation, giving your cock a rest and trying new ways to climax.
Get ready for the hardest cum shots of your life. Some guys swear by prostate toys. Because guys the world over are learning how good these toys feel. P-spot toys produce stronger, harder orgasms because prostate-stimulated orgasms are harder and stronger — simple as that. When you learn how your own anatomy works, you will better understand the anatomy of others. If you ever want to get to get really good at giving anal, you need to know how it feels. Some people are intimidatingly confident in their sexuality. Explore the stuff that turns you on — safely, with proper knowledge and a willingness to learn.
Anal sex is always the subject my straight buddies want to talk to me about. I hope it encourages them to try the things they want to try. It is as natural to me as vaginal sex is for others. Natural News reports that prostate massage is one way you can reduce your risk of prostate cancer, which remains one of the leading causes of cancer death among men of all races in the United States, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
So buy a p-spot toy, grab some lube, and get some quiet time in your bathroom. Diets high in soy, vitamin D, calcium, and green tea may also help. Fight cancer — try anal. Awesome feels unsatisfactory.
Bottoming is agonizingly, breathtakingly overwhelming and hard and hot and intense and beautiful and difficult and sexy and All Rights Reserved. It feels really, really good. One of the most common myths of anal sex is that it is a painful and messy experience. Female pegging is here to stay. Assplay requires you to learn more about your body — which is good for everyone. If you struggle with hitting orgasm too fast, ass play slows things down. Your prostate needs love. Unconventional sexual interests make you more interesting. Exploring anal will help you understand your gay and bi brothers.
Lube up. Massaging your prostate once a month may help prevent prostate cancer. One more time for the guys in the back: Bottoming feels awesome. I could go on.Straight guy bottom
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