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Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. All Topics. Type your question. Enter more details. Six years ago I worked in Afghanistan with a single woman 'K'. We hit it off, became friends, talked about everything. Sex was never an option with us because 1 no privacy at Bagram, and 2 I'm married and didn't have a desire to go there even if I could.

Was it an emotional affair? I guess so, we did share a lot with each other and I didn't tell my wife about her. After about a year she rotated back to the states, we wrote back and forth a few times and fell out of touch and I figured that was the end of it. Since I've been home my marriage has been good and bad; my wife has had medical issues so no sex since but we still get along well. I don't particularly want to sleep with anyone else either so I'm abiding. Fast forward to a few weeks ago. I get a friend request on linkedin from K and we exchange a few general s reminiscing about our times in country.

I feel that old thrill so ask her if she thought I should find a work conference near her so I could visit and she was very enthusiastic about it. I found a conference in Sep 5 weeks from now and I'm all ed up. I assume when she sees me she plans on doing more than talking, she may even be expecting to sleep with me although I still don't want to. But I'm OK with fooling around up to that point. I know that's still cheating and I'm splitting hairs but I can deal with that.

I just think that intercourse adds a level that's a whole different ballgame. I plan on being up front with her when we meet and work out together exactly what's going on with us. For my part we're not going to sleep together and I'm not going to leave my wife for her, but for a few days we'll be back in our bubble and enjoy each other in ways we never could before. I'm worried she may agree to all that and still believe on some level that we'll ride off together.

I plan to back down if I get the feeling she sees it that way. We're both over 40 so I'd like to think we can see this as a fling and leave with some good memories. For my part I admit I'm looking for female attention that I've been missing. I must be offering K something she wants or she wouldn't be so high on me coming. She always said she likes the single life and doesn't want the compromise of marriage so I assume she likes the fact that I have to leave after two days.

OK, so flame away about how I'm being ingenuous, sneaky with my wife and you think I'm using K for my own ends. My question is is this an approach that puts the best possibilities on an inherently risky situation? I don't want calls to my house at 3 AM etc.

I'll sit back now and bask in your love Edited on August 5, at UTC by the author. Delete Report Edit Lock Reported. Respond to Freebeer:. Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters. You need to have a talk with your wife. No sex since is horrible, but are you ever going to have sex again? You clearly want this fling, well the only decent thing to do is get permission. Freebeer Send a private message. It's a medical thing, but there's the chance things could change and I'd be back in the saddle. I'm not going to ask permission, that's being a wuss on my part. If I'm going to risk the consequences I'll own it.

Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. Freebeer : Ok, I am not going to judge. How is it that person has your best interest at heart? I would really like a woman's opinion, but it seems selfish and cruel. Ask a New Question expand. Trending in Dating Anonymous Will he ever marry me? Anonymous Can a married man who loves his wife be infatuated with another woman at the same time? Anonymous My gf likes to secretly make new online guy friends and spend her time chatting with them. Anonymous Meant to be or not meant to be. I'm so tired.? Anonymous What do todo next? Grooming Fragrances Hair Shaving Skin.

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